Monday, April 15, 2013

Life...


Life. It is what it is, a constant change of events, circumstances and situations. Raymond Feist said "Life is problems, Living is solving problems." In life there will be changes that occur but you must keep on living. Our goal is to help your transition through some of the changes that life throws your way, make them more manageable, less stressful and calculate your plan for recovery. Whether it was divorce, unemployment, foreclosure, whatever it might have been that swept the rug from under your feet financially; we may have a plan to help you get back on track. The first step is admitting that you need help. No this is not a 12 step program, however we do believe in being honest with yourself. Are you a bad money manager? Are you living above your means? Is fear holding you back? Second you must take action. If you never take action, absolutely nothing can change in your life. Third you must create a realistic plan to take back control over your life. There is nothing that can send you reeling backwards quicker than a poorly planned escape. We can assist you formulate a realistic plan that you can adhere to and commit to until your personal goals are accomplished. Last but not least you must make up in your mind that you are ready for change. You may ask, if I am honest, take action and create a plan, am I not already making a change mentally? No this is not always the case. You must make a paradigm shift that you will never go back. Whatever it is that caused you to go down this path, you will never go back down this path. Whether it’s a bad relationship, certain environment or addictive behaviors disguised as innocent pleasures, you can never go back down that road. We have all heard stories of people who make all of the afore mentioned changes but perhaps months, years or decades later are back in the same or worse predicament. You must never bring ANY of the negative stimuli with you into your new life. The ball is now in your court, it’s up to you to change. Change is indeed inevitable. You will either change for the good or the bad but I can assure you that you will change. The path you take is totally up to you.